Wednesday, September 27, 2017

Follow-up Lung Cancer Miracle

 It was a tough year after my mom was diagnosed with Stage 3 Inoperable Lung cancer last Dec. 2016 just days before Christmas. I felt so broken. I couldn't raise the money to go see her but I've learned God is great at teaching us lessons in life. I learned a few.
#1) Miracles happen Every day with Prayer
#2) You cant depend on anyone
#3) People would rather help animals than other people.
#4) People judge a lot what they don't understand and have never experienced before. 

My mom fought so hard to live and I feel like God gave me back my mom. For the last 6 years before this, my mother and I did not talk.  She moved to Florida back in 2000, so shes never met or held any of my babies, her Grandchildren. Shes never had the money to come back and I've never had the money to go see her. Even as I thought I would lose her I couldn't go. I make sure I text her often as possible now. I hate talking on the phone but I also keep thinking if I write I will always have her words. If I talk to her every time I'm gonna forget a lot of what she said. I cant record our convos or God knows I would. This was the very 1st picture I saw of my mom with no hair from WEEKS of Mega Chemo and intense Radiation. At the end she had she had double doses and though no one ever heard of it, that's what they did. 3 weeks apart each double dose treatment and she had many weeks of that too. 



Miracles happen!!  Just don't lose your faith and hold on tight cause it's a scary ride for the entire family. I wish I could have been there for her. 

 Darlene Hobson is a Lung Cancer Survivor!!!

Her hair is starting to grow back as you can tell from the picture. I told some of my story under a support post on Facebook and was called a total liar because she was an Oncology nurse and NO ONE comes back from stage 3 Lung Cancer. Someone else responded to the hateful words- probably cause you were their nurse, Miss positivity NOTTTT.  Any nurse should know better than to act in such a disrespectful way. I wonder what a nurse like that says to people who are trying to save their loved ones :(
I tell my story where I can because I think hope & Prayers are so important when fighting ANY Cancer. My mom was a miracle and we never lost our faith. 

Do we worry about it coming back? Oh yes, I do!!  I have heard it comes back with vengeance and heads to the brain so we are always praying it stays away and she stays Cancer Free forever :)  The Doctors in Florida Cancer center are Angels!!  They healed my mom with the help of Gods hands who guiding them every step of the way. 

Don't wait for a tragedy to happen to your family to be whole again. Brothers and sister fight yes but in the end, that's all they will have left and they need to be there for each other I believe. 

I will keep updating but hopefully, this story is a happy ending and no updates unless good ones are needed :)  

I myself m celebrating 2 Years Cigarette free since Oct 1st, 2015


God Bless any of you going through hard times right now. I hope my story helps just one person hold on to the hope they need 💗🙏

Monday, January 9, 2017

Finding out my mom had Lung Cancer

I didnt know alot about this Cancer before and am still learning. I'll never forget the mornng I got the message on my FB to call my little brother Josh. My moms name is  Darlene Hobson.I had no idea how that would go but I wasnt prepared for what he said next. I did call him and he was just crying and I thought she was gone.  I said "Please dont say that" and tears started to fall so he stopped me and said "shes alive Kylene"and he continued. At this time we thought it was stage 4 Lung Cancer and thought it had spread. I hope none of you who ever read this go through it personally. Finding out she was being treated for something a year before for numbness and pain underarm and back area. The doctor couldnt of been the brightest in the hospital👿 My mom should of been sent to a specialist a year ago and maybe she could of been saved but now we just have to pray and hope God gives her as much time as possible. 

My brothers and mom ended up in Florida and they have been there for YEARS now. Its deff. their home. I havent seen my mother in 15 years since she left. She hasnt met my kids, never hugged them or held them as babies. Its heartbreaking and the last 7 years I didnt talk to her because I thought she just didnt care. How could she never TRY to do anything, just a card on birthdays would of been a blessing. But now as the woman who gave me life is living the last of hers. Im trying everything I can to reach her. I have GoFundMe Acct. set up https://www.gofundme.com/HelpGrandkidsMetDyingGrandma    and going to start a couple other funds to for people who dont wanna use GoFundMe for any reason.  


Short little Bio
I havent seen my mom since 2000 when she left MA to go live in VA with her cousin who are Sick Fs 100%. (Wont mention names but what scum of the earth her and husband are😈)
She wanted to give my little brother a chance at life and knew where we were place to live anymore. My brother had a awful friend he was hanging with and they were starting to get into real trouble together. Hopefully that kid is in his own hell, God forgive me.  Tear falling so for now.....

Ill Blog more another day.....